The search for the perfect soulmate

Life is brimming with analogies and examples of correlations to our search.I like to think all of us are gifted with a plot of land called our body.Each one of us is free to make our villas as we please,though there are certain "construction laws" which depend entirely on the area you
have been allotted the piece of real estate.These are the financial,geographical,blah...blah.. constraints which restrict us from making our houses like our dreams.

The exterior self is like the garden of our house.One could be blessed with the most fertile of lands and hence can make our garden look as exotic as possible.So you could have the most beautiful genes on the planet and maintain and groom yourself to be as attractive from the outside.some of the lesser mortals are not as gifted and hence they can never grow the beautiful flowers or make their garden look pretty.

The actual you is like the inside of the house and it is not very evident from the outside.
It is up to us to keep it as clutter free and organized from the inside.The inner house is more
important cause that is where we ultimately eat and sleep.If the living area is not well maintained and it doesn't make you happy you tend to get pissed off quite easily therefore making your neighbours unhappy and become a cause of distress for them.Initially the foundation depends upon the support we get in our childhood and that could literally make the difference of a skyscraper and a hut.With free advice from early on passerby's we tend to have a architectural plan for how our villa should look like.Though we keep modifiying it as per our moods.And eventually with time most of us build a nice little place for ourselves and learn to live and adjust to what we have created for ourselves(mostly!).
Here is when the search begins we look around from our terraces to find the house/houses we like.The famous,rich,powerful people are the ones with the tallest multi-storied houses.Even the small houses which are miles away can see their towering presence.Hence a lot of us tend to like these big buildings which almost regularly have exquisite exteriors.

Some people like to keep increasing the size of their houses so as to see beyond their nearest neighbours.This could mean increasing your visibility to other houses and could help you
in your search for your soulmate house.This entirely depends on you ...coz some are content with whatever little they have built.The idea is to be happy with what you have built.

Some of us like to build high walls/fences around the house.These "introvert" houses like to keep
themselves away from the prying eyes of the neighbours.The search for the soulmate house is difficult for them as people have a hard time understanding their beauty and inner self.
While some of the "open-minded" houses build a small fence short enough to maintain the privacy of the house but small enough to show off their exterior.


So life isn't about making the biggest and tallest structures nor is it about making the most beautiful garden to show off it is about doing what you want with your land and being happy about it.
(Note:I am not a real estate agent nor am i civil engineer..=p)